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February Notes

March 1, 2025

February started with a soft and slow morning. Light leaked through my window, birds chirped, and my day began the way it always does—making my bed, opening the curtains, and heading to the kitchen, where a steaming cup of coffee made by the best husband in the world was waiting for me.

The start of February is special because it’s my best friend’s birthday. When you’re 3,600 miles away, nostalgia hits differently. I dedicated a journal page to her, writing about all the amazing things I know are coming her way this year. I can feel them. Every Sunday, we share a “photo buffet” of our week, a ritual that makes the distance feel a little smaller.

On the 2nd, my brother turned 50, and my heart ached that I couldn’t be there for such a milestone. Birthdays with him are some of my favorite celebrations—he just gets me.

As the days progressed, I got lost in puzzles, poured my heart into work, and dealt with a few minor setbacks. I made time for my favorite things, like gardening and hanging out with friends and their kids (whom I absolutely adore). Visiting my friend’s farm and spending time with the animals always feels like a treat. I don’t think they realize just how much it means to us that they’ve welcomed us with open arms.

Mid-month, my longtime online friend and incredibly talented artist, Katie, visited me on the island. My little trio headed to the west side early, hoping to play mermaids before picking her up—but the waves were wild. Instead, we had a picnic and watched the ocean roar.

Once Katie arrived, we had the best time playing tour guide. Seeing someone experience the island for the first time reminds me how incredibly lucky I am to live here. We indulged in so many treats, but my favorite? The cheese and herb focaccia bread from the Naalehu Market. Oh. My. Goodness. Love at first bite.

One of my favorite moments with Katie was sitting at the black sand beach, listening to the waves, and spending hours drawing and painting. Her art is breathtaking, and before she left, she gifted me the most gorgeous watercolor painting of Pele. I still can’t believe I have the original! If you haven’t checked out her work, you need to.

Saying goodbye was hard, but she left me feeling so inspired to create again. It’s been a minute since I’ve made time for creative play (outside of my junk journal, which I’m obsessed with). This month, I had so much fun filling out my gratitude entries and tracking my books of the month. My reading goal was eight, and we barely made it—but you can check out my book reviews here!

Mom duties were in full bloom this month with Girl Scout cookie season kicking off. We set a big goal, and watching my daughter step out of her shell and make friends has been incredible. We have a few booths left in March, and we’re crossing our fingers to hit our target! If you feel inclined to order cookies, here’s her link.

February also gave me a chance to dust off my photography skills at my friend’s baby shower. I had so much fun capturing the day so she could be fully present and enjoy the moment.

Looking back, February felt like a gentle nudge back to the things I love—art, photography, and connection. It reminded me to make space for creativity and the simple joys of everyday life. Here’s to carrying that energy into March. 💛

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February Notes

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Audiobook Review: Close Your Eyes and Count to 10 by Lisa Unger 🎧🔍

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If you’re craving more cozy vibes, crafty moments, and a little more joy in your life — you NEED to be part of the Soft & Slow Craft Club.⁣
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Every week, I’m dropping a little love note in your inbox with ways to slow down, get creative, and make life way more fun. So, what are you waiting for? Let’s do this.⁣
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💛 Join the club — your seat is waiting!⁣
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Fast forward… and now we’re here. Not hustling Fast forward… and now we’re here.
Not hustling. Not performing.
Just living a life that feels soft, slow, and mine.

Books I actually read.
Crafts that bring me joy.
Beach walks. Messy mornings.
Laughter. Quiet. Time that stretches.
It’s not perfect — but it’s real.

I’m not here to teach you how to do it.
Just holding the door open,
in case you need a reminder that it’s possible.

A little softer. A little slower.
A little more like you.

If you’re craving that too —
The Soft & Slow Club is your place.
When you sign up, and you’ll get weekly love notes from me (books, crafts, small joys, all of it).

Come get comfy — the link’s in my bio.
POV: You started living for the little moments — POV: You started living for the little moments — and they made life feel big again.⁣
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Because it’s not always about doing more.⁣
Sometimes it’s about noticing what’s already here.⁣
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The sound of laughter from the other room.⁣
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The way your hands move when you’re ⁣
creating something just for fun.⁣
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That feeling of peace when you stop rushing and let the moment stretch out a little longer.⁣
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These aren’t just filler moments — they’re the ones that make up a life.⁣
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The good stuff isn’t always loud or flashy.⁣
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Sometimes it’s soft, quiet, and tucked into the corners of your day.⁣
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Lately, I’ve been reminding myself: maybe we don’t need to chase the next big thing.⁣
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Maybe it’s about noticing the daily glimmers, the little luxuries, the small sparks of joy that light us up — and letting those be enough.⁣
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If you’re into that kind of life too… you’re in the right place. Stick around — I’m just getting started.⁣
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#softandslowlife #everydayreflections #dailyglimmers #slowjoy #littleluxuries #lifelately #scrapbookvibes #cozycorneroftheinternet #creativepause #joyintheordinary⁣
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How lucky am I?⁣ 🍀 (blessed, really) ⁣ Luck How lucky am I?⁣ 🍀 (blessed, really)
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Lucky to make memories with the people I love.⁣
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Lucky that my kid still thinks I’m cool (I’m holding onto that like gold).⁣
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Lucky for morning coffee and the quiet ritual of starting fresh.⁣
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That little sigh when the day begins and it’s just… mine for a moment.⁣
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Lucky for walks in the sunshine, digging my hands in the dirt, and remembering what it feels like to be grounded.⁣
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Lucky to make time for joy — to create, to play, to chase what makes me feel alive, instead of waiting for some mythical “later.”⁣
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Lucky to live a life that’s not perfect, but mine — full of softness, effort, hope, and meaning.⁣
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And lucky for the friends who remind me who I am on the days I forget.⁣
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The ones who add that little razzle dazzle, that sparkle, that oh yeah, this is what it’s all about.⁣
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If you’re in a season of noticing the good stuff — even in the middle of the mess — I see you.⁣
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We’re lucky to feel it. To live it.⁣
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What’s something you’re lucky for lately?
What even *is* this magical life?✨ ⁣ ⁣ Hones What even *is* this magical life?✨ ⁣
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Honestly? Last week dragged harder than my feet on a Monday morning… but somehow, it was still full of those sparkly little moments that make life feel *weirdly* magical.⁣
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Board games? Always a yes—especially when I win (which I did, obviously). ⁣
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Turning travel days into treat-yourself adventures? Say less. ⁣
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Sunshine and digging around in the garden? Literal heaven. ⁣
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And don’t even get me started on that blood moon under a sky full of stars—main character energy.⁣
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Somehow, even in the chaos, there’s still space to dream, play, and romanticize the little things.⁣
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Because let’s be real—a magical life isn’t always a big moment... sometimes it’s just snacks, stargazing, and pretending your errands are a rom-com montage.⁣
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